How do we?

How do the flow that forever rinses the earth cannot clear the memories of my emotional tides?
How do you tell the one you love that, the lives you thought you were living were based on lies.
How do you heal the body from wounds that are not visable and show no scars? How do you back away from someone who you trusted that have went to far?
How do we cope with the uncertin unyielding unpredicable events that shape our lives, how do we deal with the unchanging face of failures that are ok, becaused we/they someone else also have tried.
how do we tell-teach-preach-reach our children and while conversing that all that we have learned is mostly based on pretend. That was set up tp lend-not to comprehend or be a friend, or mend never explaing the means to its end, yet flowing down that river that leads to ruin and sin.
How do we spend-the time-mixed with multiple lines that do not define, why some of us resign to live out our state of mind in the sublime. Who can help us find others who are kind, can see the signs, act and not react to others who are still blind?
 How do we grow? how do we know we are ready to show, that the events of the past cannot stop our flow.

How do we.......learn, without the burn? without the need to fight to take turns? How do we...and when do we,  become more than what others want us to see.